What Men Adore in a Woman-4 Irresistible Qualities

It is very true that men find the physical beauty of a woman enticing and it would be going against nature for them to resist it. However, after all is said and done and men are down to choosing a suitable long-term partner, it is quite interesting what they look for. At least the majority of men have some common qualities they look for and I can safely generalise the statements. It is not about just the physical after all, and I have observed the following to be qualities men adore in a woman:

1. The Cool Girl Men are drawn to the "cool girl" personality and this is when a woman is grounded, is sure of herself and her man. She knows how to respond to her man in a calm and collected manner. She is not a drama queen who blows everything out of proportion or context. She knows how to put across her feelings without sounding like she is begging for attention but with authority and respect. A cool girl does not turn green with envy at the sight of her man in the company of other females and she also fits in very well with most of his friends. He can be confident enough to bring her along to a function as he knows she mixes well with his crowd and is not high maintenance.

2. The Assertive Woman This woman knows what she wants and stands up for it. She is no pushover and speaks her mind without threatening her mate. She knows her rights and protects her interests while she ensures that she still preserves her feminine nature. In other words this woman knows how to put forward her needs in a manner that leaves the man no option but to strive to meet those needs. Men usually complain that women send mixed signals and it is difficult to figure out what a woman really wants. Therefore, having a woman who knows what she wants and is able to articulate this confidently is quite attractive.

3. Ruled by the Heart A woman who is ruled by the heart does not rationalise her feelings and try to act stronger than what she really is. She lets her man know how she feels about the relationship, about the way things are going and what she would like from the relationship. Men by nature are ruled more by the head and are good at not showing feelings. Having a woman who shows feelings brings balance to the relationship since men want to be protective and to take care of women. The biggest mistake women make is to deny their feminine nature and try to compete with men at the same macho level and thus risk being heartbroken.

4. The Independent Woman One famous singer sang about how he loves an independent woman who has her own things and this is true with many men. Even though men want to provide for and take care of women, it is also important that a woman does not depend entirely on a man for support. A woman who has her own things or minds her own business is so attractive that men do not want to admit it for fear of scaring her away. Having a career, ambition, money property and a life when combined with a cool personality produces a bomb! Men want to pretend that this does not matter for fear of challenge and competition from women, but secretly and in their boy's clubs they admit their fantasies toward the independent woman.

While it is rare to find a woman with all the above qualities put together as well as physical beauty, having most of these qualities and constantly working on them is a sure recipe for having what men adore in a woman.